Tuesday, December 22, 2015
Here, JTY Died
Thursday, November 19, 2015
Self Imposed Chains
Thursday, November 5, 2015
The Day After V
Tuesday, October 27, 2015
As Ives the Insurer
Look for Your Art. Maybe, when you grow up, you will find it.
Thursday, October 15, 2015
Fellow Fallen Fairy
Thursday, October 1, 2015
Turn Up the Music
Friday, September 11, 2015
14 Year Stupor
There are times when the weight of life is so heavy only pen and paper can lift it. Scrolling through Facebook, taking in an endless stream of information, looking around at my coworkers immersed in their own devices, and wondering if they feel the weight of the 3,000 souls that breathed their last breath 14 years ago.
Why is it that day is an icon to all our nation, but the feelings are gone? Yes, we remember, but 14 years years has turned into history, and history doesn't Feel. Why is today any different than then? Why did it take three thousand deaths to momentarily wake us from our divisive, slumbering stupor? Are we not one nation? Are we not free? If we are oppressed, if we bow to the drudgery of our daily grind, it is no fault but our own! Stand, American. Rise from your 14 year stupor. There will be sleeping enough in the Grave!
Friday, September 4, 2015
Wishing for the Weekend
This week was a long one for us - I get to say us now - and the weekend is finally here. For probably the first time in my life I get Labor Day off, and so this weekend is going to be a longer one. Just like anyone else working a 9-5, I've been dreaming of this weekend since the week previous.
Today during my lunch break I was reading a bit of The Poet's Guide to Life, a collection of letters and poems by my hero, Rainer Maria Rilke. Very rarely have I thought of myself a disciple of any mortal man, but every time I read anything of his, I feel as if I'm sitting at the feet of the master. No, his life was not exemplary, nor would I recommend making the same choices he did. However, he always makes me think, and think deeply - and I adore that.
Today, I was reading a portion of commentary on his poem "The Flamingos". Using an atypical bird, Rilke makes the point that certain things that we place more value on: a woman losing her sight, undying love, and death, for instance, really only have as much value at their core as a flock of flamingos. I see his point, from his philosophy - if we are alone in this world, and there really is nothing more than the here and now, then we should value our marriage, say, just as much as we would value watching the rain fall on the window.
Ah, but we are not alone in this world. And the wonderful thing I have been contemplating in the shower this evening (I get a lot of my best thoughts in the shower...I'm sure I'm not alone), is that my wishing for the weekend has much more significance now than it ever has before. I'm not wishing for solitude or for a good book alone, or for "me" time...the beaming face of my lovely bride instantly reminded me of that when I walked through the door today.
This time, I think, the Master Rilke and my boss, and your parents, and his professor, and her uncle, are wrong. If you have the fantastic fortune to be in my position, wish for the weekend, dearest reader. Sometimes that wished away time stands still the moment you walk through the door and are captured by her shining eyes.
Wednesday, August 19, 2015
The Marionette Drummer
Monday, August 17, 2015
Unbounded by Words
Monday, July 20, 2015
Suspended Sensations
Saturday, July 11, 2015
Normal
Wednesday, July 8, 2015
Chorale
Dear, dear reader. Life comes quickly, doesn't it? Here I am, nearly 3 weeks away from being married. I've noticed my recently graduated friends musing over much of the same thing recently - being an adult, I mean. I'm working full time now, I'm making decisions about paint colors and what socks to wear in the mornings, and I'm working and I'm sleeping and I'm working some more.
Some people look at life like this and they just assume that this is all it is - rote routine. Which, you'd find ironic if you read my last blog post. But recently, I've been catching up on reading I promised myself I would do in college, and it pushes me. It spurs me onward towards my Passions: those big things that we each dream about in high school or college - the things we cling to with a desperation that drives us to put one foot in front of the other each and every day.
This post feels a bit scattered and ethereal to me. Much like my life right now does. But, friend, the chaos of our life, no matter how scattered and detached we feel now will lead us into eternity in ways you and I could never have imagined. The crazy thing is, God has wonderful plans for you and me. And whether we are just secondary characters in the stories of our own lives, or whether we have more say than we'd like to think, the chaos of our past and the passions of our future will back us away enough to get a larger glimpse of the Bigger Picture.
Sometimes when you're just laying in bed, exhausted and ready to be done with your day, you have to listen to beautiful voices and write down a few beautiful words. I hope they put a small smile on your face tonight, tomorrow, or wherever this post finds you.
Wednesday, June 3, 2015
Remembering Rogers' Routine
Monday, June 1, 2015
Memory Drawer
There is so much that I could write to you about, but words escape me. For those of you who don't know, I'm working full time now, and as of today, I'll be married in two months. I'm back at home for the time being, and the transition hasn't been the easiest for me - I feel as if I'm 16 all over again, except with lots of experiences and history behind me. College is over with, for heavens sake. At any rate, I was digging through a drawer in my bed recently that I have reserved for "memory" things, and I stumbled across many artifacts of people I have interacted with in...less than favorable circumstances. It tore me up a little, and inspired the previous poem. It's amazing the things that small pictures and poems and bracelets can stir up.
Further, and I'm not sure if it's the transitions or the hard decisions coming up or what, but I've been having nightmares - not bad dreams, as if they are something a little child suffers from - every single night for the past few weeks. I have a host of reasons why this might be, but as I said, reasoning escapes me at the moment. All I have for you is this poem. Perhaps that will better convey to you what I feel.
And perhaps next time I write it will not be so...terrifying.
Friday, May 8, 2015
Hail, Long Thirdia on Four!
Tuesday, April 28, 2015
The Forgotten Graduate
Then, specifically last year, everything began to come to crumble around me. I found out that some people who claimed to by my friends were really just waiting for a chance to roast me - and I ended up burning at their mercy. During that time things started getting Clarified. I found out that I only burned red now, as did many professors, students, and faculty. My school spirit was utterly destroyed, and I lost faith in the people I used to be a standard-bearer for. And when I thought I had escaped unscathed and the burn-wounds were nearly healed, they took my dear friend a closest professor and mentor away from me. Five of my seven classes this semester were with him, and with Biology being the sixth (something that has nothing to do with either of my majors, music and politics), my motivation plummeted to an all-time low.
I learned to keep to myself as a graduating senior. My door stayed open as it always did, but only a select few still took the time to open it. I thought for most of the semester that I was alone. Everyone else had, I thought, come to grips with the fact that they had to smile and bear it, bend over and take it, or just accept that what had happened was right. I heard more times than I can count, "If you don't like, you shouldn't have come here." A pained smile stayed painted on my face, and occasionally I'd lift my proverbial cyber-pen in protest of some new development, but my audience generally just shook their heads in pity - just a stubborn senior. A few agreed, but they were far between.
And then recently, a dear friend pulled me aside and told me it's okay to feel the way I do. He's felt that way too. And even if I walk across the stage and I'm forgotten by everyone else, he'll remember the things I did for him. And thinking back on our conversation? The aching part of me that wished I'd be a graduate remembered was satisfied. Maybe my name will only be remembered for a semester or two from here on out, but the people who remember will be the ones I love.
Recently I've been laughing at the irony that a graduation gown is black, and totally covers your undergarments - the person beneath. When we're all gathered for the ceremony, when we walk across the stage, we'll be numbers on a success list. We will be stifled in finality for that one day like the sea burqas in a crowded Middle Eastern street. A part of me wishes that I could have climbed the ranks of alumni to be one of the people who is remembered for years to come. But after what has happened here, after my heart of red and gold lost its luster, I am happy to leave that behind. I would rather be remembered by the forgotten. And one day, if one of us rises to recognition, it won't be because of the red and gold we've left behind. It will be because of the love of those few people who were left to drown in the sea of black success. That's the kind of success I want.
Wednesday, April 15, 2015
Sunny Jar of Clouds
Tuesday, April 14, 2015
Meet Me Where You're Going
Most of the time when I find a new band, or a new genre of music, it's because someone recommended them to me. I rarely listen to the radio - it's Spotify all the way for me. However, there is one band that I randomly found on my own. I used to be obsessed with the phrase "Cloud 9" in highschool - even wrote lots of stupid stickman comics about drama, love, and all the junk like that that goes on when you're that age. And so, on a whim, I typed "Cloud" into the Spotify search bar, and the first suggestion was an indie band called "Cloud Cult." I was instantly enthralled.
Through the years, I have religiously followed Cloud Cult through their pain, their recovery, and the expression of those emotions in their music. In 2013 they released one of my absolute favorite albums to date: Love. It's a simple title, but the album itself is profound.
The night I proposed to Virginia, now my fiance, I created a playlist called The Night. On it were songs that held significance to both of us, and I had a dear friend que it just as we walked in the room where I would ask her to be my wife. One of the songs that I chose was "Meet Me Where You're Going," which you're hopefully listening to right now. Like I do with most of my music, I took meaning from the title, from the words, and the heavy emotion that's poured into the song. What an appropriate song for such a night! But like most music, it grew and evolved with me, and last night I had a revelation.
Wednesday, April 8, 2015
For the 15
The truth is, I ache. I ache in a deep way that only a few people in this school can understand - or choose to understand. Music people, Biology people, Comm people, Psych people, Bible people...there are a few people in nearly every friend group, major, and class who understand what I'm getting at. Should we just roll over and say "Oh well?" I thought that's what we should do last semester, until one of my dear friends and favorite professors fell out of my life, just like so many others have this past year. There's not much we really can do. So I'll just sit over here in my corner of the Den and make some noise. I know I'm not alone.
Monday, February 2, 2015
Textbook Poetry
I have had a migraine most of the day which gives me crazy weird dreams when I try to sleep it off, and I decided I needed to let my mind wander in a short (hopefully) blog post to get over the post-migraine "hangover."
I have been having trouble focusing in my Biology class recently. This being my last semester of college (ASDLGHIASLDFGKJHA), I am realizing more and more that your undergraduate degree is merely four years and thousands of dollars spent so that you can check off a little box that says "I have completed my undergraduate degree." As I think back over the things I have learned in college, I can point to just a very few things that I actually learned in the classroom. Everything else that I truly learned - which is a lot for just four years' time - came from heartbreak, heartmend, and good relationships. As a senior if I were asked by a freshman for one piece of advice to truly get the most out of their college experience, do you know what I would tell them?
As are overrated. Find people who you can invest in, and who will invest in you, and Love them. That is what makes your college experience worthwhile. Because as soon as you graduate, no one will care that you made an A in Biology or International Relations.
Why must it be this way? Why have years of education that used to be extremely meaningful turned into a merely list of requirements the State has us fulfil?
TRAdiSHUN!
Ironically enough, cultural experiences and cultural definitions have forced us into thinking that things need to be done a certain way for everyone, and if you don't do those things that particular way, it's wrong and you'll be unsuccessful. Even in "Christian" institutions we have cultural definitions that absolutely CANNOT be broken. Forget Christ and salvation. If you do or say XYZ, or don't do and say XYZ, you'll get excommunicated, fired, forced to retire, whatever. And we call this Christianity!
I have no particular structure to this rant, and I make no plans to explain myself. I've recently dabbled in a form of poetry called "blackout poetry," and it keeps me occupied in Biology. My Scarlequain has stayed uninspired recently, since, sadly enough, Dr. Wilhoit was one of its chief inspirations. But since he has fallen prey to cultural definitions, the inspiration has left me.